Love, Beauty and Friendship

Friendship Candle Spell
To Soothe a Broken Heart
To Reunite Parted Lovers
Bring Someone Close to You
Love Sachet
Be Seen More Attractively
A True Beauty Spell
To Undo a Love Spell
Dragon Love Spell
Lemon Peel Love Spell
Rid Yourself of an Unwanted Lover
Love Knots
Change Your Eye Color
Be Healthy and Eat Less
Apple Peel Love Spell
Spell for Friendship
Make Yourself Known to Another
Spell to Gain Forgiveness
Spell to Banish Shyness
To Ask For Forgiveness
Spell for a Friendship/Love Bond
Spell for Love Troubles

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Friendship Candle Spell
Pink Candle
Good Luck/Friendship Oil
Pink silk Ribbon
White Silk Ribbon

Cast the Circle
Arrange altar
Invoke Goddess and God

You will want to anoint the pink with Good Luck oil all the while thinking of the friends that you want to make. Imagine yourself laughing with them, going out with them. Really see yourself with them.

After your candle has been anointed, you may light it. At this point you may call out the things that are important to you in a friend: honesty, trust, open mindedness (important for every Wiccan!), humor, whatever. As you light the candle, see the flame as being the energy that burns between any two close friends.

When this is completed, take your two pieces of silk ribbon and weave them together. Simply winding them around each other will do. While you do this, think of bringing that friend closer to you. This binding process is reminiscent of pagan handfasting rituals. You are binding that friend to you, making them loyal to you, a way any good friend should be. You DO NOT want to bind a specific person to you, as that kind of magic is harmful since is harms the other person's free will. Only bind the idea of the perfect friend to you.

Once you have done this, tie the ribbon to the base of your candle as best as you can. The candle's light is a beacon to bring friendship to you and another person.

When this is done, you may wish to sit and meditate on the spell that you have just cast, sending your energies out to bring that perfect friend to you. When you feel that your spell has been completed, then it has. Let your candle burn all the way out and release your circle, thanking the Goddess and the God.  

To Soothe a Broken Heart
You will need: 
one egg
one pink candle
rose petals
lemon balm
honey
rose oil (optional)

Take the egg in one hand. Sit quietly and think about the relationship you have just ended, and your feelings about splitting up. Allow all your negative feelings, grief, frustration and loneliness to come to the surface. Cry, howl and bawl if you need to - the end of a relationship is like a death and you should allow yourself to grieve and not feel ashamed about it.

While thinking about the relationship, take the egg and roll it gently over your face and forehead. Imagine that the egg is like a sponge which can soak up your grief, your need, and all the negative emotions which are holding you back and dampening your spirits. Project all your unhappiness over the relationship into the egg and let it soak up all your negative feelings.

When you feel that the egg has sucked up all your unhappiness and negative feelings over this broken relationship, take it to a plot of earth - preferably not your own garden - and bury it. If it must be on your property, bury it as far as possible from your house. Know that the negative feelings and depression you projected onto the egg are being absorbed and neutralized by the earth.

Return to your house, preferably to your own bedroom or some place where you spend a lot of time. Make yourself some lemon balm tea with some of the rose petals, and sweeten it to taste with honey. Sprinkle the rest of the rose petals around the candle and yourself, if you have enough. Light the candle. Imagine the warmth of the candle and the scent of the rose petals combining and filling the room with warmth, sweet rose scent and soft pink light. Let the pink light and scent fill you with loving warmth and comfortable feelings. If you have some, anoint your chest just over the heart with a little rose oil.

Sip the lemon balm tea. Say quietly and with conviction:

Gentle balm, soothe my heart
Bring to me your healing art

Imagine yourself surrounded by love and peace, sheltered from discomfort and loneliness. Know that you deserve love and that you are now free of your previous relationship and open to a new one. Gaze into the candle flame and imagine yourself happy and healed, living a joyful and fulfilling life without the person you have just broken up with.

To Reunite Parted Lovers
Components Required - Sterilized pin or needle
This spell is best done when the moon is in the waxing phase.
Prick the tip of your left index finger with a sterilized pin or needle.
Squeeze out a bit of blood.
Visualize being back together with your lover while using your blood to write your initials on a smooth white stone.
Write you lover initials next to yours.
Draw three circles (still with your blood) around both initials.
Wrap the stone in a pink or red cloth tied with a pink ribbon.
Bury it in the ground or a spot where a Venus-ruled herb or flower is growing.

If this spell is done correctly you should be reunited with your lover in 3 days.

Bring Someone Close to You
There are any number of ways to do this spell. You can drip water on photos of you and your beloved. You can set a candle in a bowl of water and allow it to burn until the water extinguishes it. You also may want to use Come to Me Oil and/or incense for the spell. However you do it, visualize your beloved arriving from afar to find your love!

Sacred water flow from me
To draw him ever near
As endless rivers run to sea
His path to me is clear.
A love that's true once here he'll find
And know his journey's end.
And in his heart and soul and mind
He'll know our lives should blend.

Love Sachet
Items needed:
leather or pink silk pouch
pink candle
4 white candles
cauldron
catnip or jasmine
paper + pen

Cast the circle, then consecrate it with salt + water. Call the Goddess and God (optional), and the four elements. Place the 4 candles around the circle, make sure they're in the right spots for each of the directions ( north, south, etc...) Place the pink candle in front of you, behind the cauldron. Light the white candles calling out their elements, then light the pink candle. Write down on a piece of paper what qualities you want ( cute, funny, etc...) Burn the catnip/jasmine then paper. Say 3 times:

I burn this candle to bring me a lover
I burn this paper to bring me a lover
I burn this catnip/jasmine to bring me a lover
Power this sachet with love

When everything is burnt down to ashes, put them in the sachet/pouch.
Wear around your neck all the time, and kiss pouch 3 times each day.
-Trish Patersen

Be Seen More Attractively
Fill your bathtub with water and scatter some fresh rose petals in it. Light some vanilla candles and/or incense. As you lie in the water, meditate on the image you would like to project and say these words:

Earth, Air, Fire, Sea
Let the Goddess' beauty
Shine through me

A True Beauty Spell
Prepare:

• A dish full of earth (good soil, not dry, dusty dirt).
• A yellow candle
• A full-sized mirror
• Olive, patchouli, jasmine, or cinnamon essential oil
• A small flower pot
• A flower or plant seed

Anoint the candle with the essential oil you have chosen. Place it in the center of the dish of earth. Light it and sit down with it between you and a mirror.
Look deeply into the mirror, concentrate on your reflection. Without being vain, consider the things you find most beautiful about yourself- not just physically but mentally. What is your inner beauty, what is your outer beauty?
It's important that you never think of what you feel must be "changed", be as positive about the beauty that you have already. Perform this ritual 3 nights in a row.
Once the entire candle has burnt down, remove the wax from the dish. Place the earth from the dish inside a small flower pot and plant a seed inside it. Water it and care for it so that it grows properly. You will soon find that your beauty will grow, flourish, and shine brighter than ever before- just as the plant grows before you, emerging from its seed.

To Undo a Love Spell
Materials:
Picture of both parties together or write the names on a piece of paper
A burning dish
 
Cut the paper between the two of you and say:

 As I cut their tie let the bond between them be broken

Burn both halves of the paper apart. Say:

 As I burn the tie let the bond be ever severed. So Mote it be!
Thank the deities and dismiss the circle if you have used one.
At last, bury or scatter the ashes

Use a violet or black candle and chant these words:

Turn his heart away from me, but not so far he detests me so,
Undo the obsession (he,she) has with me, for I've no love to show.
Unrequited love isn't fair, it's better we're not together.
Make (him, her) find another love who'll stay by (his,her) side forever

Dragon Love Spell
by Silver RavenWolf
Gather seven small stones and place them in a circle. In the middle of the cicle, scatter a handful of rose petals and apple seeds. Place a lodestone directly in the middle of the circle. Chant the following:

Rose petals and apples
Dragons and stone
Draw nigh true love
So I am no longer alone
Mist of the Dragon
Breath of the night
Draw from the univers
Perfect love that is right.

Lemon Peel Love Spell
To find if the one you love will become your spouse, do the following.

In the morning, as soon as you arise, peel a small lemon. Keep two equal pices of the peel, each about the size of a half-dollar. Place the pieces with the insides together and the peel sides out, and put them in your right-hand pocket or in your purse. Leave them there all day.

At night, when you undress for bed, take the peel from your pocket or purse and rub the legs of the bed with it. Then place both pieces of the peel under your pillow and lay down to sleep. If you dream of your love, then you will surely marry him/her.

To Rid Yourself of an Unwanted Lover
Some people are wooed by persistent would-be lovers, those who won't take no for an answer and who won't leave them alone. This is the ideal spell for such a situation. It should be done during the waning cycle of the Moon - that is, after the Full Moon and before the New Moon.

Have a roaring fire going, then go outside and pick up two handfuls of dry vervain leaves (you can place them on the ground ahead of time, if necessary.) As you pick them up, shout out the name of the one you wish to be rid of. Turn and go into the house (or cross to the fire if this is all done out in the open) and fling leaves onto the fire with the words:

Here is my pain;
Take it and soar.
Depart from me now
And offend me no more.

Do this for three nights in a row. You will hear no more from the unwanted ones.

Love Knots
Tie A Knot For Love: Take 3 cords or strings of various, pleasing pastel colors, perhaps pink, red, and green- and braid them very tightly together. Firmly tie a know near one end of the braid, thinking of your needs of love. Next, tie another knot, and another, until you have tied seven knots. Wear or carry the cord with you until you find your true love. After that, keep the cord in a safe place, or give it to one of the elements, burn and scatter the ashes in the ocean or a stream.

To Change Your Eye Color
For the magick practitioner wishing to test their skill, there is a way to do this. It is more difficult and takes much practice. It's also completely natural. You must be relatively advanced as a witch to use the magical method, but once you learn it's fun and entertaining. This type of magic is commonly called a glamour. It is really just a matter of taking a desire and making it surface so that it is visible to other people.

Close your eyes. You must have complete focus and be concentrating only on changing the eye color, any other distractions must be cleared from the mind. Now fill your mind with the color your eyes are, right now, naturally. Now see that color slowly change to the color you wish your eyes to become. See it overpower your natural color. Imagine that the color shines like a ray of light from inside your mind out through your eyes. Visualize your eyes becoming that color as the light passes through them. (This process should take at least 15 minutes the first few times, and you will have to repeat it after awhile. Glamours fade as you "forget" them.)

Upon opening your eyes, you may or may not be able to see the change in the mirror. For a more accurate check of whether it worked, ask someone what color your eyes are. If they know you really well they may see past the glamour. (Your parents may see past it, and often spouses or very close friends, because they know you too well.) The stronger you develop the talent to throw a glamour, the more people it can trick. It will take you practice. Good luck!

Be Healthy and Eat Less
Time of month: Sunset on a Waning Moon (moving from the full to the new moon)
Tools:

• yellow candle with holder
• rose petals
• lavender oil
• small garnets
• carnelian or turquoise stone
• small jar with lid or plastic bag that seals
• picture of yourself healthy.

Charge e chant: 

My pain is gone, I hurt no more, Tension flies right out the door! 

Now lauking healthy and physically fit.
Charge rose petals, oil and stones.
Sprinkle petals around candle, again visualize your goal.
Place the charged garnet stones and a few drops of oil into the jar or bag. [A baby food sized jar might work well.] As you do this visualize again. Then pick up the petals and place them into the jar or bag also. Seal the jar or bag and say:

By this jar/bag of powered oil, petals and stones, it will bring me courage and help me meet my goal to not eat or snack as much and become healthier.

Visualize yourself becoming healthier and moving the weight on the scale to the left.
Carry this jar or bag with you and sniff charged items before eating.
Rub the charged carnelian or turquoise on the picture of yourself then rub onto your body while visualizing yourself become the you in the picture. Say:

In no way will this spell cause me to suffer any adverse effects. So mote it be!

Carry the stone with you and rub it when you have the urge to snack or eat too much. Hang the picture up in your kitchen to view. Allow the candle to burn for another hour then snuff it out and put away. Burn it whenever you need the moral support.

Apple Peel Spell
This is the simplest spell I have ever seen or heard of.

Peel an apple, keeping the ENTIRE PEEL in one long thin strip.
Then throw the peeling over your left shoulder.
If it stays in one piece it will reveal the initial of your one true love.

(further, I have heard it said that after finding the initial of your love,
if you cut the apple in half and count the seeds, it will foretell how many children you will have from the union.)
-Adriane

To Make Yourself Known to Another
For all those love lorn, if you love another and they can't seem to see you, then this can bring you to their attention.
Find his/her footprints in the earth, then dig up the footprint (the earth). Take the soil to a willow tree, dig a hole in at its base, and bury the footprint soil and cover it with the earth of the willow. As you bury the footprint, say:

"Many earth’s on earth there be,
I make my love know unto thee.
For He is the flower and I the stem;
He the cock and I the hen.
Grow, grow willow tree!
Sorrow not for the likes of me."

Please note that while you will see the object of your affection beginning to notice you, this spell is by no means designed to interfere with anyone's free will. Whatever may happen, each and every spirit on the planet must be free to make their own choice.
-Emeris